Well the main guy that was going to destroy me, I thought hey I'm getting older by the day lets turn this around into something positive! Held my hands up and joked about it and trying my luck. He then changed his tone and was really cool about it. Didn't help the fact one of his sites had been hacked that morning and was red misting.
He's sent me loads of tips and advice about how to improve my sites and
SEO etc
All good stuff too, tons of it.