A bit of friendly advice...
I think the main issue is that you're dealing with a forum which has a whole bunch of people on it who do SEO as a living, or as part of their livelihood anyway. Folks who are familiar with on-page and off-page optimisation, metatag optimisation, snippet optimisation, theming and siloing, microdata, sitemaps (both on-site and xml, for video, regular html, images, mobile etc.), keyword density, short/long tail, incoming and outgoing link optimisation, etc. etc.
So the kind of answers that would placate people on a pet forum or a photography forum or something equally non-techy don't even begin to cut the mustard on here...
You're either going to have to be a lot more forthcoming about the kind of things you do and how you do them (and a lot less defensive about the very valid questions people are raising) or face the fact that you're not going to build much in the way of credibility on here.