I appreciate your time in replying, although I think the amount of time I have spent on the site is irrelevant? I am respectful and helpful and have done alot of good fair deals in my short time here. I am simply judging it by what I think is fair, note* i said "in my opinion".
I think the site is generally good and don't think badly of it. However it is obviously going to lose trust in myself as a buyer by what has happened.
There are a few points that dont add up, but maybe I was expecting a little too much.
Anyway nothing will bring her back, so I'll look for another domain. And join a few other forums as that is clearly the solution.
Thanks