I view it this way.
If someone has a domain they wish to sell and the domain fits the criteria of a wanted ad then there is absolutely nothing to lose by submitting the domain. The frastrations that follow for the potential seller are not ideal but that's part of the domain game.
I see domains I'm potentially interested in in replies to 'Wanted' threads, but I never contact the poster because I always think it would be too cheeky to barge in on someone else's thread.
There are also some that I know have started literally dozens of wanted threads and yet still have zero domain trader ratings.
I don't necessarily think that means anything. I've probably bought about 15 domains from here and I only have a rating of 2.
I believe that approximately ZERO end-users use this forum.
After all, why should they. As an end-user, they have a particular domain or domains in mind and they'll either try and buy them or they won't. They're not going to stumble across this forum (which will have nothing at all to do with their core competence), build up enough posts to be allowed to post a "Wanted" ad then do so on the off-chance that the owner of one of the tiny handful of names that are "key" to their particular niche A) are on here B) respond to a "fishing expedition" in wanted.
Real people in real businesses have better things to do with their time.
I consider myself to be an end-user, although granted I'm not your typical end-user. I rarely have potential domains in mind; I see if what's available/posted on here takes my fancy.
Ah, but if you're a real "end user" you will have 1, 2 or at best a tiny handful of domains that are relevant to your business, and you won't care about anything else..
I tend to buy domains for a mix of personal projects and business-type sites (as well as a few niche sites, but that's obviously not really associated with end-users).
As far as buying patterns go, I very rarely buy based on number of exacts or the genericness or anything like that. If a name sounds good to me, or it has good backlinks, or I can think of a practical use for it, there's a good chance I'll take it if the price is right. My names are low-value in themselves, but I love them like the mongrels they are. I'm not an average end-user, but I'm much closer to that than a domainer.
From what I've seen in real life, people think the 'Domains for Sale' etc. links and the links that are/were on the right hand side are the only domains for sale and the rest is chat. So the prices for those instantly put newcomers off.
I personally avoid posting in the 'Wanted' forum because:
- I see others making very specific requirements about extensions, niche etc. and half the replies ignore the criteria altogether.
- On the one or two occasions I have posted asking for domains, certain people PM me several times and then continue to PM sporadically for months after even if I say it's not what I'm looking for but thanks.
- A lot of people absolutely take the piss with how much they want for really bad names: it's either insulting or bordering on a scam.
Might be a minority, but all contributes to unnecessary hassle (hence the avoiding posting there) and makes everyone else look bad.
This is what the 'Wanted' forum looks like from the other side: